Ask Aurora

Anonymous asked: I just want them to be here for me. I dont really have anything to say, I just dont want to be alone.

In my experience parents usually find out eventually.  Telling them now would keep you from feeling anxious about lying.  There has to be a reason that you didn’t do as well in school. I did really bad in school one semester and I needed my parents help to get out of trouble.  Without them I wouldn’t be able to do it.  

Anonymous asked: Im seventeen, I want to kill myself. My boyfriend of 4 years says he never wants to speak to me again and doesnt care if I kill myself. My parents are too busy to talk to me and seem to think Im simply melodramatic.

I don’t think you’re being melodramatic.  You just suffered a huge loss leaving you to doubt your whole relationship.  What would you say to your parents if they weren’t too busy?

Anonymous asked: Im seventeen, I want to kill myself. My boyfriend of 4 years says he never wants to speak to me again and doesnt care if I kill myself. My parents are too busy to talk to me and seem to think Im simply melodramatic.

I don’t think you’re being melodramatic.  You just suffered a huge loss leaving you to doubt your whole relationship.  What would you say to your parents if they weren’t too busy?

Anonymous asked: well im 16 and a half, i have multiple friends i used to talk to about how i felt but ive had falling outs with all 3 of them - all of which were guys that i shouldnt have let go of because they had my back. one of them was my best best friend who i met in about july last year, we just clicked so well but everyone told me he liked me but i just didnt feel the same but i guess he eventually got sick of hearing about all my issues.
i hate the way i look and who i am. im always getting into nasty situations with these people who are better than me because of who i am and how i act, which i dont understand. i hate the way i look because im not skinny. i know im not fat but im becoming anorexic and sometimes throw up my food but i havent done that in a while. i sometimes ask my self if the way i look effects everything around me but the depression has been off and on in the last 4 years, but something always triggers it to become worse again - like a death, changing schools but then not being able to make friends at the new school.
i should give you a name so you know if im replying or not, just call me gee. easy nick name, i dont want to use my actual tumblr name (:

Gee,

Would you feel the same if you were skinny?

Anonymous asked: So I have BPD, GAD, OCD, Bipolar 2, PTSD, Major Depression. I can't seem to even get an ounce better. I have done so many courses eg CBT, DBT and general self-esteem, PTSD and Depression. I've tried all levels of meds including ECT. The Dr has said he is not sure what to do. I don't expect it to change overnight but I would really like my mood to lift. I feel so hopeless. Jas

What about CBT and DBT did work for you?

Anonymous asked: I lied to my parents that I did great in my finals when in fact, I failed everything except for one. My conscience is eating my soul up. I want to tell them. But if I do, they'll disown me and hate me because I failed---it's something I never did in my entire life. I don't fail exams. So, if I tell them the truth...oh dear god, I don't what they'll do.

That’s a lot of guilt.  Guilt because you did poorly and because you lied :(.  Why did you not do well?

forever-kora asked: is your name aurora or is that just there for some other reason?
also, i like it that you have links on your page to help people out ^__^
whats it like being in college for psychology?
if you don't mind me asking that is

My name is Aurora.  I love studying pscyh

I find a guy thats funny, nice, and cute.  So of course he won’t like me.  Why get my hopes up?

Anonymous asked: well i just was wondering what it maens if i soden waves of depression ill be happy and then ill see somehting or a topic will come up whil talking and ill just get really really sad and stop talking and move away from people and just kinda sit off to the side and just chill there alone and in a lil while ill be ust fine again it happens alot and idotn no whay
just curious, maddie

Maddie,

How frequent and how long do the waves last? Are there certain topics that will make you react that way?

theinnergenius:

I was fine until you started talking. jeez